November Review

I think the end of November is my least favorite time of year, for no other reason than the fact that it means Christmas and New Years are right around the corner and I now go from having very little to do, to having way too much to do! Before we get to Christmas excitement, let's enjoy a recap of November!

 This is the first actual birthday cake that I've made either of my kids. I tend to do cupcakes because I like having individual servings ready to go, to be honest I have no idea why I decided to do a cake this year, but it was dang good. I found a recipe for chocolate icing in our ward recipe book and it was amazing, whipped up so fast and was the perfect amount for this cake. Oh and please forgive my squiggly letters, the hole in my icing thing was on a weird angle for some reason.

So for decorations we reused what I had from Kalea's birthday, and that was a fantastic idea if I don't say so myself. I find myself loving these paper chains more and more every time I use them. they are whimsical and fun, and bonus, big bang for your buck since I bought my cardstock on sale in the summer I think it cost me something like $2, and that went a long ways. Also, the Happy 2nd Birthday banner was actually our Happy 1st Birthday banner, I just made the disc with the number 2 and put it on top of the "1st" disc, so no cost there.

 








This is Brynlee dancing, she takes it quite seriously and is a pro at Jazz Hands already, even though we've never taught her! She was putting on quite the show that night, couldn't have had anything to do with the amount of sugar in her system....

 She was SO excited to see a fishy on her birthday cake. It was awesome to see that this year, she was actually excited and knew what was going on, we're still working on teaching her how to blow out an actual candle, though, so she was kind of confused when we blew it out for her.

 Building a playdough tower on the kitchen table, this is usually a no-no, but I caved since it kept her quiet for so long. Oh and it's a no-no, not because I'm a lame mom, but because certain children have fallen off the table performing this task before...

 This is Kalea being super cute but not wanting me to take pictures of her... Above, she is wearing 2 layers of summertime clothing, her romper and Brynlee's sundress. Below, she got into my makeup and decided to make her face look "bootiful" except it just looked really dirty.

 

And to end things on a high note, this is the day last week that Brynlee fell asleep at 4:30 eating her early dinner. I figured they'd need to go to bed by 7 since they had woken up at 5a.m. that day, apparently someone needed to be in bed much sooner. You can't tell but her hand was actually still opening and closing, very slowly, as she slept, as if she were still picking up noodles. It was slightly creepy.

Anyway, that's our recap, here's looking forward to our busy month!

Look Who's Two

Brynlee turned TWO on the 4th. With Halloween festivities and then a birthday, we get to enjoy two pretty chaotic weeks of fun and celebration. This year I opted out of decorating for Halloween since my time was consumed with making costumes, I don't think the kids were too disappointed about that, in fact I am sure they didn't even notice. And, when they did notice other peoples' decorations, they were usually scared of them, so I don't feel a loss there at all this year. They did notice me singing "Happy Birthday" when I went in to get Brynlee out of bed on her special day, and both children screamed "STOP! NO SINGING" at me, that was pretty great. When we finally made it downstairs, they most definitely noticed all the fun decorations I put up for Brynlee's birthday, it was so cute, all morning she said "Wow! Look Mommy!" as she pointed to everything. It's nice to know that my late night with the "decorating fairies" was worth it, she literally pointed out every last detail, I think I earned huge awesome mommy points from her. Kalea was confused and exclaimed, "Mommy look, it's Christmas! Oh thank you so much!" I then had to explain that it was actually Brynlee's birthday, to which Kalea responded, "It's my birthday? Happy Birthdaaaaaaaaaaaay!" So all day long there were happy choruses of "For me? For my birthday?!" and "Happy Birthday!" and "No, it's not Brynlee's birthday, it's my birthday!" We kept things simple for the party this year and just invited the grandparents over to celebrate with us, I think that's okay when you're turning two. And since Brynlee shares her birthday with a cousin and an uncle, celebrating the day of with just our family was a bit easier to coordinate.

Brynlee is a pretty fun kid. She is extremely expressive both vocally and physically. When she really likes something, we know because she makes really intense faces and squeals with delight. When she doesn't like something we know because she will stomp her feet repeatedly and scream/shout, she also hits. But she is very quick to say sorry in a surprisingly meaningful way. I love the intonation in her voice when she says "I'm sorry Mom-E" the "e" sound, as one can imagine is quite high-pitched and super cute. She is definitely Mommy's girl and likes to be my shadow most of the day. She is pretty shy with people she doesn't know, but will follow Kalea anywhere. Brynlee also loves to run and squeal at the same time. On Sunday I took her out into the hall and she wouldn't stop, I couldn't get back into our church meetings because every time I went to pick her up she'd find a way to elude my grasp and start off running and squealing again. She is also very good at making huge messes all by herself, but she likes to help me clean them up, so I can't really complain about that. She likes to help put laundry away and has started helping me make Kalea's bed. Yeah, don't ask me how that happened. Brynlee is kind of a neat freak sometimes and will get super frustrated if she can't lay out a blanket for her dolls just perfectly, or wrap them up in just the right way. I guess I have to admit that some of her "Type A personality" comes from me because she makes the same crazy person frustration noises that I do. At least I know how to help her deal with it though, that's a blessing I never knew would come from being such a perfectionist about certain things. Brynlee notices everything and watches us all very closely. I think because she is so sensitive, she picks up on a lot of things that we miss sometimes. She also is great at playing up an emotion, she has the biggest most awesome pouty face and tries really hard to use that to get her way. Between her and Kalea I don't know how Steve is ever going to say "no" to those girls. Brynlee loves to dance, and will stop in her tracks to bust out some dance moves for a few minutes and then go back to whatever she was doing. It's pretty funny to watch. She loves making towers with our containers of playdough- no word of a lie, they hardly ever actually play with the dough, it's all about who can make the tallest tower in this house. It's fine with me, way less mess to clean up! She loves animals, specifically fish. She loves to make fish faces and fish sounds and basically, she's just all about fish. Her b-day cake this year had a big fish on it, just for that reason. She loved it! We have a tropical places calendar in the kitchen and she loves to point out all the different fish everyday. She still goes upstairs to see the fish at my parents' house, even though the fish hasn't been there for months because he finally "expired". Brynlee is also my child who gets caught sneaking snacks out of the kitchen most often. But, the nice thing is that she always gets enough for her and for Kalea, so at least she's sharing her goods with her sister.
We are so happy that Brynlee came to our family, and while she's by no means a "perfect child" we feel pretty spoiled to have her in our home. Happy 2nd Birthday Brynlee!

Full Plate?

K, so I have one complaint lately and I have to vent it because it's driving me insane. A few times in the last little while people have come to me with the report that a number someone or another has opted out of having me do this or that because "Allison has a lot on her plate" or "Allison has enough on her plate".... My question is, how does anyone know how much or how little I have on my plate right now? I haven't talked to anybody about anything even remotely plate filling lately. Are people under the strange assumption that because I have a seemingly important calling at church that it takes up huge portions of my life? Newsflash, it takes up a few hours every couple of weeks, and if I have to teach, a week of prep before the lesson. Other than that I have two wild children and a husband who is a HUGE help to me when he's not busy with work. Plate full? Not even close. Also, so what if I have a lot or a little going on, I'm not the kind of person that says "yes" to everything, so if I were to have a lot on my plate I would just say so and try to help out where needed when I don't have as much going on. But in all honestly, I have NOTHING going on right now! Gah! Drive me mental. On the point of children and on behalf of a majority of stay at home moms that I know, sometimes being distracted by something that doesn't revolve around the little ones, is great for my sanity. And in conclusion, do I come across as the kind of person that can't handle a lot on her plate? If so, kill me now, I do NOT want to be that person. That person is so annoying to me. This whole thing is so annoying to me. Rant concluded, if anybody needs anything let me know :)

Blogging Hiatus...

PS I dislike the new blogger interface and how I still can't figure out how to get my pix side by side, just in case you were wondering why my post looks insane!

You know how sometimes words and thoughts just flow together like a really pretty picture? Well lately my words and thoughts are kind of like my 3yr olds' finger paintings, all over the place and not super meaningful. Not that I'm not amazed by every single one, but they are just kind of thrown on the page, right? So anyways, in lieu of words, let's enjoy some pictures!

 

Entertaining the munchkins during family photos, from airplane rides to horsey rides. They actually cooperated pretty good for us, very surprising since they normally don't so much. Although when they were done with pictures they were DONE, and hid themselves under Nana's kitchen table!

They love to torment each other lately, just like in this picture. A hug might look, to an outsider, like a sign of affection, in our house it turns into a way to assume power and control over any given situation. Most hugs lately turn into headlocks and screaming and then wrestling to the ground and one or both kids coming to tell me that the other kid wouldn't let them go. And I thought all this was just a "boy thing" HAHAHA funny joke...

Fall has arrived so we have taken full advantage of the cooler days down in Fish Creek Park. We are so lucky to live in the city, but be so close to nature. This day we went with our friends down to the creek and the girls loved having permission to throw rocks into the water, oh man, the simple things.

Living with so many huge trees on our street has it's perks- we get tons of leaves to play in!

We are busy busy at this time of year and are trying to pack as much fun into these last nice days as we can. Regular blogging will resume after Halloween and before Christmas, I hope!

Tales from 2 Weeks Ago: yes it's taken me that long to get this post up

I have two children who are very much missing the warmth of the sun and the subsequent outdoor activities that occur when the sun provides such warmth. I miss it too. On a cooler day last week I thought that I could run a simple errand to the Bread Basket and haul my kids with me, no big deal. What would have been a quick trip for me, turned into a very long ordeal, followed by screeching demands from the backseat, of the "FRIES NOOOOOOOOOOW!" variety. I was proud of myself for not caving into the plea, especially because I was really desiring some fast-food comfort after having to rescue numerous loaves of bread from pokey fingers, and buying extra things just because I knew my kids had destroyed them, but I said "No" and I meant it. Steadfast parenting you say? Boy did I deserve a treat!
Yesterday was another cool couped up inside all day horror show, so when Steve got home and dinner was eaten by the adults and left for the birds by the kids we were kind of spent. Steve tried to bribe me to take one child to the grocery store, I felt it was a tad unfair since I had the pleasure of butting heads bonding with her all day. So my retaliation was "Why don't we go for a family car ride?!" which I thought meant we would all drive to the grocery store, I would run in and get the very few things that we needed while he entertained the kids in the car and then we would just drive around until closer to bedtime... Imagine my horror when he parked the car and started pulling kids from the backseat! Kids who had basically dressed themselves that day in upside down, backwards and mis-matched everything HAHA it was pretty great. The children were quickly divided, Brynlee took her seat in the cart, Kalea expressed her desire to walk with Daddy- of course, and into the store we ventured. After annoying a whole bunch of ladies with a game of marco-polo through the toothpaste/shampoo/facewash/makeup aisles and a minor melt-down by our 3yr old villain angel, Steve and I thought it best to trade offspring for a while. HA that was fun... I was now without the security blanket/shopping cart and was left to wrangle the very stubborn 3yr old to the opposite end of the store to get milk by myself. It has never taken me so long to get to the milk. It was an eternity of never-ending dialogue, "Eyes in front...watch where you're going...this way... follow mommy... can you find the milk? Watch out for that shopping cart!" When we got to the milk, Daddy and Brynlee were MIA, probably because they had to wait so long for us, but there was a nice looking older lady in the dairy section whom Kalea was very intrigued by. So intrigued that while I was grabbing my milk and the lady was down an aisle grabbing some yogurt, Kalea in her attempts to spy while bent over sideways, walked herself right into the ladies cart. So sue me if my initial reaction was to laugh, it was hilarious! And the look on her face while she rubbed her forehead was so classic. Well, the nice older lady didn't think it was very funny that I laughed and tried to verbally comfort Kalea- who didn't really need it. As she walked to Kalea she says "Oh that wasn't funny, she really hit her head hard" to which I responded "No trust me, she's fine, it wasn't hard at all and she's not crying" At that point I was receiving awesome facial expressions from this lady who doesn't know me, and Kalea ran to me, avoiding the stranger, and wrapped herself around my legs. It was at this point that the lady made the mistake of trying to get Kalea to show her the non-existent mark on her forehead and reached out her hand to move Kalea's hair out of the way. Kalea just screamed in her face "No! I want my MOMMY!" hahahaha stranger danger! The lady was shocked and all she said was, "Alright then, I get the message". I wanted to say "Sorry if I didn't have much sympathy but she didn't hit her head hard, and it happened because she wasn't listening, thanks for infringing on my teaching moment", but I just smiled and said "Let's go find Daddy and Brynlee, run!" LOL So after all the fun of the grocery store, we got home and the kids went straight to bed, like angels. It was amazing. Yay for craziness turning into hilarity turning into bedtime!
PS have I ever loved Kalea more than in that moment of screaming in stranger lady's face? I think not!

3 Years of Kalea

 This is Kalea showing off her birthday ensemble... oh what, you wanted to see her face? Pssshhh!

I cannot believe my baby is 3?! The time most definitely flies with this kid.

Kalea has done a great job of filling the last 3yrs with all sorts of excitement, laughter and joy along with a few moments of complete chaos and bewilderment- c'mon I'm not gonna sugar coat it!

Sometimes I look at her and wonder how in the world we wound up together, I'm grateful we did,

but really, whose funny idea was this?

It's good to have a sense of humor about parenting her that is for sure, if I didn't we'd have major problems. She's taught me more patience in 3yrs than I had learned in the 24yrs before I had her.

She's also helped me learn to throw caution to the wind a little more, be more carefree, watch way more Disney movies/cartoons than I ever intended to, laugh louder, cry really hard to get my way... She's also taught me to be in the moment, let go of a lot of my pretenses and just be me.

Kalea has funny little ways that she let's me know we're doing good, like when I put her in the car

the other day and she said "Thanks Mom, you're my best friend!"

Nothing feels better than hearing that, even though she's 3 and can't fully comprehend it.

I know there will be times when she's a teenager that I will need to hear that and it won't come out of her mouth, so I'm clinging to it every time she says it now!

We are pretty good friends though, and as hectic and crazy as our life together gets sometimes, it is definitely a riot being her mom.

I love that I have so many hilarious memories to look back on, and the pictures to go with them. They say a picture is worth a thousand words, but with her a thousand would never be enough to fully explain.

Kalea's birthday this year also fell on the weekend of our nephew's baptism, so it was her first time having all her cousins around for a party. She really had a lot of fun with them, I don't even know if she actually ate any of her food besides the sugar laden stuff that day!

We had so much fun visiting and eating and trying to keep the kids from scarfing all of the yummy cookies.You could tell they all had way too much sugar, but it was so worth it, they were so happy!

I must admit, I was pleasantly surprised with myself for this birthday. I am usually such a procrastinator, but this year I had a timeline leading up to the day and for the most part I followed it,

and, big shocker here, the day went so much smoother! Thanks to my Mom, MIL and SIL for helping with some of the food too, it was nice to be able to delegate a few things out into very capable hands.

Haha, except for the fact that I forgot icing for the cupcakes- but we had tons of other food so that was a minor oops... although now I feel like I really should light a candle for Kalea to blow out- better late than never...

While we were tidying up inside I found 3 little rascals that had wandered out. I think they may have wanted to jump some more, but we were done with that activity, so they grabbed a book and hung out for a bit. Too funny. In these pictures they were all saying "CHEESE!" in unison, in one of the highest pitches you can imagine.

Kalea and Rex are probably 2 of the strongest 3yr olds you will ever encounter.

This is them battling a bit for the bike, earlier in the day they had a tug of war with a skipping rope and I thought Rex was going to fly off the top of the slide.

They were dead even in strength, which was pretty fun to watch.

I'm glad Kalea has so many cousins so close to her age,

it makes watching them grow up so much fun!

I love how neither of them would look straight into the camera for me.

All in all we had a really great celebration of the life of a very awesome, spunky, spirited, curious, energetic, fun, sweet, smart, sassy 3 YEAR OLD KALEA!

Brynlee telling me what's up, or showing me that she's "One!" hopefully she'll have "Two!" figured out by November... only a few more months until the next party!

Layton, SLC & Early Departures

After the reunion we headed to Layton to stay at Ted and Bette's place. We anticipated our kids would probably be a little crazy. I really should have anticipated that they would be insane, not listen to a word anyone said and go to bed entirely too late. On the bright side, by this point they were used to awkward sleeping arrangements and when they finally did wind down, had no problem sharing a bed on the floor. By the way, it was the comfiest floor-bed ever, thanks to my SuperMom skills.

 For whatever reason, Kalea had absolutely no intention of taking advantage of the pool, and Brynlee appeared interested for about 2 minutes, until she actually got in the water and started freaking out. Steve, on the other hand, was more than enthused to spend some time swimming, diving, splashing and floating. I joined him for a bit and we had our 15mins of peace before dinner.

 I got video of our 4th of July firecracker/sparkler extravaganza, but never thought to take a picture. It was really fun and I might post a video someday, but don't get your hopes up for that.

 On Tuesday we decided we should take the kids to Salt Lake City and do Temple Square. Of course, in the beginning Kalea was excited and very interested to "Go see Jesus" aka The Christus statue in the visitor's center. Once we got there she would barely hold still, but she was very interested in the statue, specifically the feet. She expressed a lot of concern for Jesus' "owies" and tried to kiss them, then she noticed the toes and holy smokes did she get excited about those. I guess Thorvaldsen got those right because she was enamored with them, which lead to some slightly irreverent behavior and a prompt/noisy exit. I'm sure everyone was glad when we got her distracted enough with other things to quiet her down. Once we got outside again, it was back to crazy kid mode and after a few attempts at family pictures Steve and I were DONE. Which really is an understatement, because at this point we were quite willing to just leave them in their strollers and go for lunch, in hopes that some more capable people would take them in or send them to military school. It was basically at that point that we decided to start the long drive home. At first I felt bad that we were leaving having not really said goodbye to anyone, but at the same time, the HUGE amount of relief that my sanity would soon be restored was much more appealing to me than a few more days of insane toddler behavior.
I think some people may not fully appreciate this because they were blessed with perfectly angelic children who never ever misbehave and listen to everything adults say, but for those of you with children like mine, thanks for understanding.

Thus began our long drive home, which really wouldn't have been all that long if it weren't for the awesome detour I took us on to find COSTCO. The detour was worth it in the end, especially when we got home and saw that the crappy bright orange toddler PFDs were going for $40 each and we spent $40 for 2 great quality toddler ones in the States, I felt vindicated. Steve was a trouper and drove all over Montana to get those things, and without too much complaint that his wife was obviously not in top navigating form. Hooray! We also saw a sign welcoming the Beiber Family and later found out that the child of singing notoriety was indeed breathing the same mountain air as we were when we passed through Whitefish, MT. At this point I think it's good to note that our kids were FANTASTIC in the car. Like, really really great travellers. Didn't whine or cry. Only watched 1 movie on the laptop the entire trip- shocking I know. Slept and ate and entertained themselves. It was great and made us look forward to our next road trips- probably much shorter ones.